Taking Action Even If You Are Full Of Fear
We have all had times where we are full of fear and that prevented us from taking action. For example, you may be afraid that your partner will leave you, that you will lose your job, or even that you will have an accident, and more hidden thoughts that make you think about this fear even more.
When you fear something, you will end up attracting it in some way. For example, if you fear that people will leave you, you will tend to build relationships with friends or partners that make you feel abandoned.
Knowing that whatever you fear is actually happening can paralyze you completely or make you think you are unlucky. And that is exactly what prevents you from taking action and going one step further to get yourself out of the uncomfortable situation where insecurity completely controls your life.
Full of fear for no reason
If you live in constant fear, your thoughts are probably in front of you. Maybe you assume or imagine everything that could happen in the future. You tell yourself things like “I know this job will not last,” “They will find someone better than me,” or “This will not go well.”
When you are full of fear, it is difficult for you to take action. Also, it is inevitable that you will feel stuck because of all the limitations you have set yourself. There are barriers you have built to the point that you do not want to go out of your comfort zone.
Living in constant fear is nothing but perception. Fear is not real. Spending hours imagining what might happen if you made a certain decision, or what would happen if you stepped out of your comfort zone, is not positive because you are only fueling your insecurities.
Implementing measures is essential
Taking action is important in life, from the most basic things like deciding what you want to study, what job you want to have, or whether you want a person as a partner or not. If you are so afraid of making a decision, how will you act when there is no other choice?
That’s when you can make a big mistake. Waiting until the last minute to make a decision can make you make bad choices. And just like that, when you’re afraid of taking action, you can start letting others decide for you, which is a huge mistake.
If you can relate to all of this, and you find it difficult to take action, you will also realize that you often want everything under control. It’s like a need. However, it is impossible to control everything.
Just imagine your boss kicking you. You would not know what decision to make. The same thing will happen if your partner leaves you. When you have difficulty making decisions or taking action, the surprises will become more unpleasant.
Get out of your comfort zone
When you stay in your comfort zone, fear begins to wear you out. This happens when you are constantly in doubt, or when you are unsure if you are not achieving anything, even when you are qualified to achieve your goals.
Taking action is important so that you can avoid letting others make decisions for you. We all have fear, but we also have the power to overcome it.
So instead of letting fear limit you, you can use it to your advantage. How? By using fear, doubt and the need to escape and take action instead. In this way, your fears will lose their power over you.
